Our Credo

To create and maintain a safe and comfortable space that welcomes the exploration of safe, sane and consensual erotic fetishes and fantasies. We will strive to make you and your partners time at Monterey Stay and Play a fantasy come true. Whether hard core BDSM players or completely new and experimenting with a partner, you will find something for you at Monterey Stay and Play.


Jim is lifestyle dominant and has built and equipped this room and board for your enjoyment. We love to share our lifestyle with others and we love to meet new friends. We have been involved in the BDSM community for decades. Through the years we have accumulated a vast array of bondage furniture and equipment that we make available to you.


Our property is in a rural area about seven miles from the ocean. Our R&B is in a separate building behind our main house. When you arrive you will be escorted into your own building where your fantasy can begin. Jim will give you a quick tour of the space then will leave you to total privacy. You will not be bothered during your stay. Breakfast can be served either in the main house or in the R&B. Gourmet dinners can be negotiated. Of course, since we live on the property in a seperate building, we are always available to answer questions or give advice.