Categories for BDSM

Let’s Play “Dress Up”

March 15, 2024 3:47 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

When it comes to the world of BDSM, there is often a misconception that it is all about whips, chains, and pain. While those elements can certainly be a part of it, there is so much more to this complex and diverse lifestyle. One aspect that often gets overlooked is the art of dressing up in BDSM. Dressing up in elaborate costumes, lingerie, and fetish wear is not just about looking sexy or intimidating – it is about embodying a different persona, exploring power dynamics, and enhancing the overall play experience. Creating a Persona: The Power of Roleplay One of... View Article

What Is Cuckolding?

January 26, 2024 4:24 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

Cuckolding is a sexual fetish that has gained attention and popularity in recent years due to its portrayal in mainstream media and discussion forums. While the term may sound unfamiliar to some, cuckolding has a long history and is rooted in specific dynamics and fantasies. In this blog, we will explore the concept of cuckolding, its psychological aspects, and the consensual nature of this complex sexual practice. 1. Defining Cuckolding: Cuckolding refers to a specific sexual fetish involving a consensual relationship where a person’s partner engages in sexual activities with someone else outside the primary relationship. The person who witnesses... View Article

Sensation Play And How To Break The Ice

January 26, 2024 4:24 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

Sensation play is a form of BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism) that involves using various sensations, such as touch, temperature, and pressure, to explore and enhance pleasure. It can be a thrilling and intimate way to connect with your partner, but it’s important to approach it with care and communication. In this blog, we will discuss what sensation play is, some popular techniques, and how to break the ice and introduce it to your partner. Understanding Sensation Play Sensation play involves incorporating different sensory experiences into sexual activities. It can range from using feathers or ice cubes... View Article

What is Shibari?

December 29, 2023 5:53 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

Shibari, also known as Kinbaku, is a Japanese art form that involves intricate rope bondage. Originating from the ancient martial arts of hojojutsu, the practice has evolved into a form of erotic bondage that focuses on the aesthetic and emotional connection between the participants. While Shibari does involve restraining the submissive partner with ropes, its purpose goes beyond physical restraint. It is considered a deeply intimate and artistic expression of trust, vulnerability, and connection. Brief History of Shibari Shibari has deep roots in the history and culture of Japan. It was initially developed as a means of restraining prisoners during... View Article

How To Tell Your Partner You’re Kinky

October 16, 2023 8:44 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

Exploring one’s sexuality is a natural and healthy part of any relationship. However, when it comes to discussing kinks and fetishes, many individuals find it challenging to open up to their partners. The fear of judgment, rejection, or misunderstanding can make these conversations incredibly nerve-wracking. In this blog post, we will guide you through some effective ways to share your desires with your partner, fostering open and non-judgmental communication. Choose the Right Time and Place Finding the perfect moment to discuss your kinks and fetishes is crucial. Ideally, this should be during a calm and relaxed atmosphere, without external distractions.... View Article

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