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Spanking Is Not Just a Punishment

September 26, 2022 12:00 am Published by Leave your thoughts

Spanking is a core BDSM skill, and not just because it’s the first ‘toy’ in anyone’s tool chest. Hands are tactile and effective at delivering a range of sensations, from the sublime to the sadistic. Spanking can be a sizzling warm-up before using other implements of pain delivery or the whole show. Since it’s relatively low risk, it’s a great place to start when looking for sadistic erotic play ideas.  Communication Is Divine Before any kinky ideas for the bedroom become reality, take time to sit down with your partner and discuss your desires, fears, and limitations. Establish a safe... View Article

5 Bondage Ideas and Tips for Beginners

September 2, 2022 12:00 am Published by Leave your thoughts

Are you interested in getting a little kinky and exploring the BDSM intimacy style? If so, you’ll need a few tips to get started. These are some helpful BDSM bondage ideas for beginners if you’re curious.  Research BDSM The first big step is to research BDSM. You should never enter into any new arrangement blindly. Read about all the types of BDSM relations and the different roles you and your partner can have. For example, you’ll need to decide whether you want to be dominant or submissive and how aggressive (or meek) you want to be in that role. Dominant... View Article

The Difference Between Real and Fake Dominants

September 2, 2022 12:00 am Published by Leave your thoughts

What is a dominant BDSM? A dominant is someone who takes control in a sexual situation. They are the one who decides what will happen, and they are the one who makes sure that their partner enjoys themselves. Dominants are usually confident, assertive people who know what they want. However, it’s essential to indicate that there are also fake dominants. So, what is the difference between real and fake dominants? 1. Lifestyle Generally, a dominant person has a defined lifestyle, which means that you can easily predict what they want in their life. This has always been a common experience... View Article

The Ultimate List of Kinks & Fetishes, Explained by Sex Experts

July 20, 2022 12:00 am Published by Leave your thoughts

Kinks and fetishes are a huge part of life for many people, but they are still considered "taboo" topics. Thus, you might be searching for a discreet guide to kinks and fetishes to learn more. These are some top kinks and fetishes and an explanation of how they differ, as per the experts.  Difference Between a Kink and a Fetish A kink is a sexual act that falls outside of what most people consider normal or acceptable. It doesn’t have to be outrageous for people to consider it a kink. It just needs to be different from conventional relations. Some... View Article

The Difference Between Dommes vs Doms

July 19, 2022 12:00 am Published by Leave your thoughts

The world of BDSM has many phrases and terms you may not understand if you’re a beginner. Here’s some information about BDSM and the term dommes vs dom. What Is BDSM? BDSM stands for bondage, domination, sadism, and masochism. Discipline and submission are sometimes added to the formula as well. BDSM is a sexual lifestyle that involves exerting power over another person to the point of thoroughly dominating the individual.  Some individuals refer to BDSM sexuality as "kink," which means it’s non-conventional and much different from traditional, stationary, or "wholesome" lovemaking.  For BDSM to work effectively and not be considered... View Article

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