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Safe Words Are Always Used

February 13, 2023 5:06 pm Published by Comments Off on Safe Words Are Always Used

In the BDSM community, safe words are a pre-agreed word or signal that stops play instantly. They are part of a permissive philosophy that encourages risk-aware consensual kink. They’re also a great tool to communicate with your partner. But it’s important to discuss your safe word techniques before negotiating any scene. What Makes For A Good Safe Word A good safe word is one that gets its own attention, is easily remembered, and conveys the proper message in a clear, concise manner. This is especially true for the non-verbal safe word, as your partner may be too focused on the... View Article


Why Safe Words Are Important

November 22, 2022 12:00 am Published by Comments Off on Why Safe Words Are Important

If you are interested or involved in BDSM, you may have heard about safe words. However, you may not have gotten the full explanation of what they are and how you should use them. The following is some information about the safe words for BDSM activity and a few ideas if you want to start using them with your loved one.  What Are Safe Words? A safe word is a single word or phrase you and your partner use during BDSM activities. The main rule of safe word usage is that all sexual activities must stop when someone uses the... View Article


Safe Alternatives For Latex

November 21, 2022 12:00 am Published by Comments Off on Safe Alternatives For Latex

Latex is a material that is more common in medical circles and everyday items than many people are aware of. There are tons of products that contain latex that you might not even be aware of. For those that are allergic to latex or simply do not want to use latex, there are now more alternatives than ever before that may work for you and your BDSM partner. Latex Alternatives For those that may have a latex allergy or that do not want to use latex, some materials are a natural alternative to rubber latex. Some of the most common... View Article


Spanking Is Not Just a Punishment

September 26, 2022 12:00 am Published by Comments Off on Spanking Is Not Just a Punishment

Spanking is a core BDSM skill, and not just because it’s the first ‘toy’ in anyone’s tool chest. Hands are tactile and effective at delivering a range of sensations, from the sublime to the sadistic. Spanking can be a sizzling warm-up before using other implements of pain delivery or the whole show. Since it’s relatively low risk, it’s a great place to start when looking for sadistic erotic play ideas.  Communication Is Divine Before any kinky ideas for the bedroom become reality, take time to sit down with your partner and discuss your desires, fears, and limitations. Establish a safe... View Article


5 Bondage Ideas and Tips for Beginners

September 2, 2022 12:00 am Published by Comments Off on 5 Bondage Ideas and Tips for Beginners

Are you interested in getting a little kinky and exploring the BDSM intimacy style? If so, you’ll need a few tips to get started. These are some helpful BDSM bondage ideas for beginners if you’re curious.  Research BDSM The first big step is to research BDSM. You should never enter into any new arrangement blindly. Read about all the types of BDSM relations and the different roles you and your partner can have. For example, you’ll need to decide whether you want to be dominant or submissive and how aggressive (or meek) you want to be in that role. Dominant... View Article


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