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Safety And Fundamentals Of Kink

March 3, 2023 11:09 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

Roles Safety And Fundamentals Of Kink Kink is a great way of exploring sexual interests and fantasies that may or may not include constraints or resistance, often with a dominant/submissive partner. And while kink is often viewed as an adventurous way of exploring sexual interests and fantasies, the kink community is actually characterized by a strong emphasis on consent and safety. How Many People Practice BDSM? Bondage, discipline, submission, and masochism are sexual behaviors that can often involve pain, sex play and power exchange. One study surveyed Canadians and found that almost half of them had tried BDSM in the... View Article

Our Place Is Completely Private. Nobody Is Watching 

February 13, 2023 5:15 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

BDSM bed and bondage hotels allow couples to explore erotic fantasies with no one watching. Monterey Stay and Play is a great example of this type of business. Here are a few ways they value complete privacy:  We Respect Your Privacy  Monterey Stay and Play is the premier bed and bondage hotel dedicated to the sexually adventurous BDSM community. Our custom-designed B&B (bed and bondage) is secluded from the main house, and only rented out to one party at a time, ensuring complete privacy.   All The Amenities You Desire  Our erotic room and board features all the amenities you’d expect... View Article

Safe Words Are Always Used

February 13, 2023 5:06 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

In the BDSM community, safe words are a pre-agreed word or signal that stops play instantly. They are part of a permissive philosophy that encourages risk-aware consensual kink. They’re also a great tool to communicate with your partner. But it’s important to discuss your safe word techniques before negotiating any scene. What Makes For A Good Safe Word A good safe word is one that gets its own attention, is easily remembered, and conveys the proper message in a clear, concise manner. This is especially true for the non-verbal safe word, as your partner may be too focused on the... View Article

Why Safe Words Are Important

November 22, 2022 12:00 am Published by Leave your thoughts

If you are interested or involved in BDSM, you may have heard about safe words. However, you may not have gotten the full explanation of what they are and how you should use them. The following is some information about the safe words for BDSM activity and a few ideas if you want to start using them with your loved one.  What Are Safe Words? A safe word is a single word or phrase you and your partner use during BDSM activities. The main rule of safe word usage is that all sexual activities must stop when someone uses the... View Article

Safe Alternatives For Latex

November 21, 2022 12:00 am Published by Leave your thoughts

Latex is a material that is more common in medical circles and everyday items than many people are aware of. There are tons of products that contain latex that you might not even be aware of. For those that are allergic to latex or simply do not want to use latex, there are now more alternatives than ever before that may work for you and your BDSM partner. Latex Alternatives For those that may have a latex allergy or that do not want to use latex, some materials are a natural alternative to rubber latex. Some of the most common... View Article

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