Categories for BDSM

What Is a Dom/Sub Dynamic in BDSM?

May 10, 2023 5:51 pm Published by

What Is a Dom/Sub Dynamic in BDSM? The term BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism) refers to a range of sexual practices and preferences that involve consensual power exchange between partners. Within the BDSM community, a popular dynamic is that of the Dom/Sub combination. In this blog post, we will explore what this means, and how it might manifest in the context of BDSM play. What is a Dom/Sub combination? In BDSM, the Dom (short for Dominant) is the person who takes on the controlling or dominant role in a relationship. They are responsible for setting boundaries, issuing commands, and disciplining... View Article

Kinky Ideas For Couples

April 17, 2023 7:25 pm Published by

Kinky Ideas For Couples If you’ve been in a sexual rut, there are a few ways to spice things up. From trying new positions to getting creative with sex games in unique fetish room and board establishments, there are plenty of kinky ideas for couples to try. Here are a few of the best; so, grab your partner and get ready to have some sexy fun! Sex Furniture Sex furniture is a great kinky idea for couples looking to change up their bedroom routines and achieve more sexual pleasure. It can make some sex positions more comfortable by changing the... View Article

Saran Wrap? What’s That For?

April 17, 2023 7:20 pm Published by

Saran Wrap? What’s That For? Saran wrap (also known as cling film or plastic wrap) is commonly used in food preparation, but it’s also an incredibly versatile fetish item. It can be used to immobilize someone completely and is a great way to explore a variety of fantasies. Unlike other restraints, plastic wrap bondage offers a spread-out feeling that can be more comfortable for many people. It can be particularly soothing for those who have circulation or body heating issues, and it can help reduce pain. Saran Wrap In BDSM There are many reasons to use saran wrap in BDSM, but... View Article

Safety And Fundamentals Of Kink

March 3, 2023 11:09 pm Published by

Roles Safety And Fundamentals Of Kink Kink is a great way of exploring sexual interests and fantasies that may or may not include constraints or resistance, often with a dominant/submissive partner. And while kink is often viewed as an adventurous way of exploring sexual interests and fantasies, the kink community is actually characterized by a strong emphasis on consent and safety. How Many People Practice BDSM? Bondage, discipline, submission, and masochism are sexual behaviors that can often involve pain, sex play and power exchange. One study surveyed Canadians and found that almost half of them had tried BDSM in the... View Article

Safe Words Are Always Used

February 13, 2023 5:06 pm Published by

In the BDSM community, safe words are a pre-agreed word or signal that stops play instantly. They are part of a permissive philosophy that encourages risk-aware consensual kink. They’re also a great tool to communicate with your partner. But it’s important to discuss your safe word techniques before negotiating any scene. What Makes For A Good Safe Word A good safe word is one that gets its own attention, is easily remembered, and conveys the proper message in a clear, concise manner. This is especially true for the non-verbal safe word, as your partner may be too focused on the... View Article

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