Privacy in BDSM is vital, no matter who you are. Not everyone will understand your lifestyle, and people have a habit of attacking anything they don’t understand. That goes for kink and BDSM, chastity and religion, or interests that have nothing to do with either. Unfortunately, you will have to protect yourself from outside scrutinization if you are involved in anything that doesn’t align with the current trends. You must take steps to separate your private life from your job and maybe even your friends and family members. These are some tips for facilitating your activities safely: Stay in Places... View Article
Now that 2020 is over (and the whole world is breathing a sigh of relief), it’s time to look forward to what 2021 has to offer. If you’re like most people, 2020 was a stressful and difficult year. Why not celebrate the new year with a bed and bondage getaway? Whether you’re an experienced kinkster or want to take the time to explore new fantasies, a visit to a bed and bondage hotel is the perfect way to get your new year off to a great start: Spice up your relationship: When you’ve been with your partner for a long... View Article
As you’re no doubt aware, the COVID-19 pandemic has been shuttering businesses across the nation in an effort to slow the spread. However, this means that couples are finding it increasingly difficult to get away for a weekend, especially when their tastes run kinkier than most. Monterey Stay and Play is still open during the pandemic. In fact, we think it’s the perfect place to quarantine together! That said, we take coronavirus safety very seriously. As the area’s premier sex dungeon, thorough sanitation is already a part of our business model—read on to learn the precautions we’re taking so you... View Article
Any marriage takes work, but when we say that, we usually mean things like putting away our dirty socks so that our spouse doesn’t have to, figuring out a way to tolerate your mother-in-law’s questions about having babies and making an effort to say you love each other every day. Although intimacy is a crucial part of any marriage, it’s usually not until there’s a problem in the bedroom that we turn our attention to working on our sex lives. At Monterey Stay and Play, however, we think that your sex life deserves just as much attention as any other... View Article
The movie ’50 Shades of Grey’ has been hailed as an erotic masterpiece, and it has undoubtedly provided inspiration to a great many men and women who previously led fairly vanilla sex lives. Some of the ideas explored during the movie have since been explored by countless couples who have sought to add life and excitement to their sexual encounters. Below you’ll find some of the methods which were touched on in the movie, and which you might want to adapt for your own personal usage in the bedroom. Keep in mind that not all of these even need to... View Article
