Any marriage takes work, but when we say that, we usually mean things like putting away our dirty socks so that our spouse doesn’t have to, figuring out a way to tolerate your mother-in-law’s questions about having babies and making an effort to say you love each other every day. Although intimacy is a crucial part of any marriage, it’s usually not until there’s a problem in the bedroom that we turn our attention to working on our sex lives. At Monterey Stay and Play, however, we think that your sex life deserves just as much attention as any other... View Article
The movie ’50 Shades of Grey’ has been hailed as an erotic masterpiece, and it has undoubtedly provided inspiration to a great many men and women who previously led fairly vanilla sex lives. Some of the ideas explored during the movie have since been explored by countless couples who have sought to add life and excitement to their sexual encounters. Below you’ll find some of the methods which were touched on in the movie, and which you might want to adapt for your own personal usage in the bedroom. Keep in mind that not all of these even need to... View Article
“Fifty Shades of Grey” may have brought erotica into the bedrooms of many Americans, but BDSM has intrigued people for generations. The Marquis de Sade wrote “Justine” in 1791, an exploration in sadism. Although the BDSM movement is largely fantastical for many adults, if you’re ready to take the next step into this sexual and sensual movement, you may want to consider renting, or even building a sex dungeon. Here is our guide to dungeons for beginners. What Exactly is a Sex Dungeon? Most people picture a dungeon as an underground space in a castle. Traditionally, a dungeon is an... View Article
BDSM is the acronym for “Bondage, Discipline, Submission and Masochism,” a form of kinky sex play. The Kinsey Institute currently reports that about 2% of the population has been involved in BDSM, but some researchers suggest that the figure could realistically be as high as 60%. There’s something exciting about it that intrigues people. More recently, BDSM has been trending thanks in large part to the “50 Shades of Grey” books and movies. If you’re interested in exploring another side of your sex life, you can’t simply order your partner to be your submissive however. There is a lot to... View Article
