Monterey Stay and Play Is Completely Private

Privacy in BDSM is vital, no matter who you are. Not everyone will understand your lifestyle, and people have a habit of attacking anything they don’t understand. That goes for kink and BDSM, chastity and religion, or interests that have nothing to do with either.

Unfortunately, you will have to protect yourself from outside scrutinization if you are involved in anything that doesn’t align with the current trends. You must take steps to separate your private life from your job and maybe even your friends and family members. These are some tips for facilitating your activities safely:

Stay in Places That Protect Your Privacy

First, you need to go to a safe place when you spend time with someone performing BDSM activities. It’s best not to have people in your home because it puts your privacy and safety at risk. Monterey Stay & Play is an example of a secluded place you can go to engage in your kink without worrying about privacy breaches, safety issues, or judgments.

It’s a private bed and bondage facility where people like you can go and have a good time exploring your imaginations and fantasies. You can rent such a place and play as long as you like in a custom bedroom. You won’t have to worry about neighbors dropping by or postmen catching a glimpse through the window. You also won’t have to wonder whether your Facebook friends know what you do in your spare time or if your ex is plotting to take your child away. 

Purchase Your Personal Items With Cash

The internet is undoubtedly the least private place these days, and credit and debit card usage is not safe, either. Thus, you must be careful of what you purchase using those cards and where you do your shopping.

Try to find a local bondage shop you can walk or drive to and pay cash for all of your "fun" items. The store might still have surveillance cameras, but you can cut down on people associating you with such purchases anyway. The only exception is if you’ve got a private investigator on your tail, and in that case, you have a bigger privacy issue than you think.  

Be Leery of Social Media Activities

Avoid joining social media groups related to BDSM if you can. You might also want to avoid discussing any matters on social media, even by chat. People do all sorts of heinous things with other people’s texts and gather and use the information for their sick pleasures. You can prevent that by keeping your kink dealings private and meeting with people the old-fashioned way. 

Keep Your Items in Hidden Places

Limit the number of persons you allow in your private living space. The truth is, you don’t know anyone, and even the people you think are your closest friends may not be. Ensure that you place your kink-related products and information in hidden places if you let someone in. Don’t let them out of your site while they’re in your home, because you never know when they might rummage through your personal belongings. 

These tips should help you navigate your kink lifestyle more effectively. You can even use them for activities unrelated to BDSM. It’s always better to be safe now than sorry later about letting other people know your innermost secrets. 

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