5 Bondage Ideas and Tips for Beginners

Are you interested in getting a little kinky and exploring the BDSM intimacy style? If so, you’ll need a few tips to get started. These are some helpful BDSM bondage ideas for beginners if you’re curious. 

Research BDSM

The first big step is to research BDSM. You should never enter into any new arrangement blindly. Read about all the types of BDSM relations and the different roles you and your partner can have. For example, you’ll need to decide whether you want to be dominant or submissive and how aggressive (or meek) you want to be in that role.

Dominant people are often individuals with strong and sometimes overbearing personalities. However, some publicly timid people secretly yearn to engage in BDSM activities as the dominant party. It gives them a sense of power in a world where they are mostly powerless.

The term "dom" can mean anything from having your partner wrapped around your finger to "owning" full-on "slaves" in the bedroom. You’ll have to think about which aspect of this lifestyle will turn you on the most and zone in on it when you do your research.  

Find a Willing Participant

The trickiest part of BDSM is finding the right connections to get started. Your current partner may or may not be interested in experimenting with such behaviors. Thus, you’ll have to find the right time to talk to him or her about it and pick their brain to see if you can work it out. 

If you don’t have a partner, you can visit some legitimate forums or ask around at an adult toy shop to see if someone can give you some leads. Be careful no matter what you do. It’s always a bit more dangerous to interact with new people than with someone you know.  

Share Your Fantasies and Talk About Them

You’re halfway there once you have someone to share the experience with. Now, you need to talk about your fantasies with each other and decide which games you want to play, how far you want to go in role-playing, etc.

You’ll have to decide on the pain factor and what you want to do to each other. Will someone be getting spanked, or will you engage in more sadistic types of action? Will there be light or heavy torture involved? This realm of intimacy can get pretty deep, and you need to discuss it thoroughly before you participate in it. 

Ease Into It

One of the best bondage ideas for beginners is to take it slow. Don’t rush into any of the heavy stuff. Try something light like paddling, nibbling, or blindfolding first. You can move on to some more serious stuff if you get a kick out of that. Try to gauge the uncomfortableness as you move into different techniques and fantasies. 

Once again, make sure you do plenty of research on this subject. Keep the activities fun, and don’t hurt anybody, unless they beg you to do so. 

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