Role Play Options

Whether you’re looking to spice up your existing BDSM relationship, or you’re planning a sexy weekend getaway to try something new, role playing can be a fun way to bond with your partner. The only problem is deciding which one to try first. Here are some of our favorite BDSM role play ideas. Don’t forget to discuss them with your partner first, and remember to establish boundaries and safe words before you step into the scene:

• Kinky maid: What happens when you leave a smudge on the mirror? Uh-oh, the homeowner isn’t going to be very happy with you—but maybe you like it that way. French maid costume optional, but fun!
• Teacher and student: Who hasn’t had a crush on a teacher? This can be a consensual, sexy way to live out those fantasies. What happens if you get an A—or an F? Do your best to make the grade.
• Royalty and servant: When real life seems too stressful and overwhelming, why not pretend one of you is a demanding king or queen? Your faithful servant should be willing to do just about anything for the good of their country.
• Artist and model: Whether or not the two of you are artistically inclined, posing as a nude model can be a lot of fun. Bring a canvas and paint, or limit your artistic inclinations to photography—either way, who knows what you’ll be inspired to do?
• Naughty librarian: Shhh! If the librarian has to tell you to be quiet one more time, you might just get in trouble. Who knows what sort of power fantasies lurk behind those nerdy glasses?
• Dirty cop and dirtier suspect. The thrill of getting caught can make sex exciting, but when it’s your own partner acting as the cop, it’s even better. Don’t forget to bring your handcuffs.
• Total strangers: Whether you’re comfortable hooking up with strangers or not, pretending you and your partner have never met can lead to some seriously steamy scenes—without the potential consequences of sleeping with an actual stranger.
• Pizza delivery: What happens when the pizza delivery person is too hot to handle? Find out what happens when you open the door for an extra-special delivery. Maybe you’re a lonely housewife or an overworked boss looking for love. Either way, someone’s getting a great tip.
• Business rivals: From the boardroom to the bedroom, pretending you’re cutthroat business rivals—who just can’t resist each other—can be hot. Bonus points if you coax out any of their trade secrets in the heat of the moment.
• Adult film stars: If your normal job is boring, pretending you’re porn stars is a fun way to spice things up. Here’s your chance to find out if all of those positions are comfortable, let alone achievable. If you need inspiration, just cue up your favorite clips.

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