Seven Must-Have Items for Your Sex Dungeon at Home

Thinking about turning your bedroom into the ultimate playground for adults? When you’re having fun experimenting with BDSM, you might wonder exactly what a good sex dungeon should include. Maybe you haven’t figured out exactly which kinks are your favorite, or you’re trying to decide what can be stored discreetly.

There are no hard and fast rules for what goes into a sex dungeon—it’s all based on personal preference. There’s no need to study 50 Shades of Grey and make your own “red room.” With that said, there are a few popular toys and items that can make your experience fun for everyone involved. Here are some of the top items for your BDSM sex dungeon:

• Cuffs and restraints: Restraints are one of the best ways to experiment with submission and dominance, whether you’re into fuzzy handcuffs or want to try shibari. Get some restraints that are comfortable for the person being restrained. If you use rope or ties, make sure to keep a pair of scissors nearby. You never know when someone will need to be freed immediately.
• Paddles or whips: Spanking and other impact play can be done with your bare hands, but adding a few toys to the mix is always fun. Look for paddles, whips, riding crops and floggers at your local toy store. Start with the least intimidating versions and work your way up (unless you’re already a longtime practitioner).
• Collar and leash: If the submissive partner likes being led around, get a collar and leash. You can hang it from a hook when it’s not in use, or store it with your other toys for discretion’s sake.
• Sex swing: Here’s a project for your handyman: installing a sex swing in the bedroom. These can be loads of fun, but be cautious when hanging it up. It needs to be securely installed. That’s why there are removable models that attach to doorjambs.
• Sex furniture: Sex furniture can also be a fun addition, and the uninitiated might not even recognize it for what it is. Try a wedge chair to help maneuver your bodies into interesting new positions.
• Blindfold: Restricting one sense can heighten the others, which is why blindfolds are so popular. You can get a special blackout mask, or just use your air travel sleep mask. Your partner will never know what’s coming.
• Massage table: Finally, some people love to use massage tables—they offer more freedom of movement for the dominant partner, and sometimes it’s easier to restrain the submissive person on the table instead of a bed. Look for a folding version, so you can hide it away when company comes over.

Bonus tip: Make sure you have plenty of clean rags, towels or paper towels handy, since all that fun can get messy.

Want more dungeon room BDSM ideas? Not sure what to add to your sex dungeon? Plan a visit to the Monterey Stay and Play to find out which accessories you love. We look forward to welcoming you.

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