Eight Sex Bucket List Ideas for Married Couples

Any marriage takes work, but when we say that, we usually mean things like putting away our dirty socks so that our spouse doesn’t have to, figuring out a way to tolerate your mother-in-law’s questions about having babies and making an effort to say you love each other every day. Although intimacy is a crucial part of any marriage, it’s usually not until there’s a problem in the bedroom that we turn our attention to working on our sex lives. At Monterey Stay and Play, however, we think that your sex life deserves just as much attention as any other part of your marriage—so why not create a “sex bucket list” to guarantee plenty of bedroom fun?

Here are some of our ideas for your married couple sex bucket list. The two of you can collect ideas on your own, and then compare notes to talk about which ones deserve a place of honor on the official list:

• Try outdoor sex: As long as no one else is around, try outdoor sex for some new thrills. Finally, hiking sounds like a fun idea!
• Make a sex tape: If you go this route, make sure that you both agree on how to store the tape, who can see it and what precautions you’ll take if you want to prevent it from getting out.
• Be a voyeur or exhibitionist: There are plenty of ways you can indulge a voyeuristic or exhibitionist streak, thanks to the internet. (Just make sure all parties involved consent to it first.)
• Anal sex: If you’ve never tried anal sex, make sure that you and your spouse take all necessary precautions (foreplay, plenty of lube and good communication) to make the experience fun.
• Explore BDSM: Thanks to movies and books like 50 Shades, it’s more socially acceptable to add restraints and power games to your sex life. If you explore this fetish, do plenty of reading beforehand and discuss your limits.
• Make up a whole new world: Role playing is a fun way to spice things up, whether you want to create entire characters, pretend you’re in novel situations or go for the more taboo kinks, like daddy/dom and little girl play.
• Use hidden sex toys in public: Remote control vibrators, Ben Wa or Kegel balls and other toys can add some extra stimulation to your next public outing. Only you and your partner will know.
• Book a stay at an erotic hotel: For a really novel experience, try booking a stay at an erotic hotel like Monterey Stay and Play. Our establishment is designed to let you explore your fantasies, kinks and fetishes in a safe, controlled and clean private environment, so you can find out if that bucket list idea is something you want to make part of your everyday sex life.

Ready to bring some of these sex bucket list ideas for married couples into your repertoire? Call Monterey Stay and Play to book your erotic getaway, and put the spice back in your married sex life.

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