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A Guide to Navigating BDSM as a Beginner

August 19, 2021 1:31 am Published by Leave your thoughts

Navigating BDSM as a beginner can be intimidating. Do you need to go buy out the toy section of your favorite adult store before you can begin? Are there rules, community norms or something else you must follow, or can you forge your own path? As always, your exploration is up to you—which means that when you’re navigating BDSM in the beginning, you should take it as slow as you like. Finding out what you like (and what you really, really don’t) is an individual discovery. Here’s how to take the plunge as a BDSM beginner. What is BDSM? BDSM... View Article

Five Ways to Help Your Dom Feel Comfortable Exploring BDSM More Deeply

August 5, 2021 7:21 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

So, you’ve decided to explore BDSM with your partner—but they’re a little hesitant about acting as a dom. Dominant partners usually enjoy control and guiding their submissives through scenes. However, even the most self-assured dom needs some care, so they can feel comfortable with your BDSM relationship. After all, being in charge all the time can be exhausting. Here are a few ways you can contribute to your relationship so your dom feels comfortable with BDSM exploration: Communicate often: Communication is the key to all healthy, satisfying BDSM relationships. It’s not just a matter of communicating while you’re in the... View Article

BDSM in Long-Distance Relationships

July 22, 2021 7:21 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

It’s hard to have intimacy in a long-distance relationship. When you don’t see each other often, you may struggle to connect in both an emotional and physical way—especially if your tastes are anything but vanilla. If you’re into BDSM, there are a few ways you can keep things spicy, even when there are hundreds of miles and plenty of hours between you. Exploring BDSM across a long distance will help keep your physical relationship alive, but it creates a new sense of emotional intimacy, too. As always, make sure you discuss boundaries, limits and safe words before you begin: Embrace... View Article

What to Know About BDSM as a Beginner

July 8, 2021 2:43 am Published by Leave your thoughts

BDSM can be a fun part of your sex life—or the entirety of it—but starting out as a beginner can be intimidating. Before you set up historical-grade stocks in your living room, you should take some time to learn more about the core values, safety practices and, most importantly, what you actually like. Here’s what you should know about BDSM when you’re a beginner. Communication is key One of the core tenets of BDSM is communication—which can be awkward when you have to say things like, “I’d like to wear a furry tail attached to an anal plug, honey—is that... View Article

BDSM 101: Figuring Out, and Communicating, What You’re Into

June 24, 2021 2:43 am Published by Leave your thoughts

So, you think BDSM looks interesting, but you’re not quite sure where to start. Before you go out and purchase a full PVC catsuit and an array of whips and restraints, read on—figuring out how you want to approach BDSM is different for everyone, and it’s always best to start slow. In fact, if you already have a partner, communication is one of the most important parts of the relationship. (If you think it’s embarrassing to talk about your kinks, just imagine how awkward it would be if your partner caned you without warning.) Here’s how to figure out and... View Article

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