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Safety And Fundamentals Of Kink

March 3, 2023 11:09 pm Published by

Roles Safety And Fundamentals Of Kink Kink is a great way of exploring sexual interests and fantasies that may or may not include constraints or resistance, often with a dominant/submissive partner. And while kink is often viewed as an adventurous way of exploring sexual interests and fantasies, the kink community is actually characterized by a strong emphasis on consent and safety. How Many People Practice BDSM? Bondage, discipline, submission, and masochism are sexual behaviors that can often involve pain, sex play and power exchange. One study surveyed Canadians and found that almost half of them had tried BDSM in the... View Article

Our Place Is Completely Private. Nobody Is Watching 

February 13, 2023 5:15 pm Published by

BDSM bed and bondage hotels allow couples to explore erotic fantasies with no one watching. Monterey Stay and Play is a great example of this type of business. Here are a few ways they value complete privacy:  We Respect Your Privacy  Monterey Stay and Play is the premier bed and bondage hotel dedicated to the sexually adventurous BDSM community. Our custom-designed B&B (bed and bondage) is secluded from the main house, and only rented out to one party at a time, ensuring complete privacy.   All The Amenities You Desire  Our erotic room and board features all the amenities you’d expect... View Article

Safe Words Are Always Used

February 13, 2023 5:06 pm Published by

In the BDSM community, safe words are a pre-agreed word or signal that stops play instantly. They are part of a permissive philosophy that encourages risk-aware consensual kink. They’re also a great tool to communicate with your partner. But it’s important to discuss your safe word techniques before negotiating any scene. What Makes For A Good Safe Word A good safe word is one that gets its own attention, is easily remembered, and conveys the proper message in a clear, concise manner. This is especially true for the non-verbal safe word, as your partner may be too focused on the... View Article

Spanking Is Not Just a Punishment

September 26, 2022 12:00 am Published by

Spanking is a core BDSM skill, and not just because it’s the first ‘toy’ in anyone’s tool chest. Hands are tactile and effective at delivering a range of sensations, from the sublime to the sadistic. Spanking can be a sizzling warm-up before using other implements of pain delivery or the whole show. Since it’s relatively low risk, it’s a great place to start when looking for sadistic erotic play ideas.  Communication Is Divine Before any kinky ideas for the bedroom become reality, take time to sit down with your partner and discuss your desires, fears, and limitations. Establish a safe... View Article

The Ultimate List of Kinks & Fetishes, Explained by Sex Experts

July 20, 2022 12:00 am Published by

Kinks and fetishes are a huge part of life for many people, but they are still considered "taboo" topics. Thus, you might be searching for a discreet guide to kinks and fetishes to learn more. These are some top kinks and fetishes and an explanation of how they differ, as per the experts.  Difference Between a Kink and a Fetish A kink is a sexual act that falls outside of what most people consider normal or acceptable. It doesn’t have to be outrageous for people to consider it a kink. It just needs to be different from conventional relations. Some... View Article

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