Must-Try BDSM Ideas and Fantasies to Try at a Sex Dungeon

If you’ve never been to a BDSM sex dungeon, you might not know which BDSM ideas to try first. When you and your partner or partners have an entire dungeon room to yourselves, the possibilities for exploring your sexualities and relationships are only limited by your kinks and consent.

Whether you’re a longtime member of the BDSM community or you’re spicing up the relationship, there are some classic fantasies that you can act out in the privacy of a sex dungeon. Here are a few of our favorite dungeon room BDSM ideas:

• Master/slave play: Naturally, the first thing that comes to mind for many newcomers is play with a heavy dominant and submissive component—especially because sex dungeons like the one at Monterey Stay and Play come equipped with plenty of restraints and impact equipment. Collars and leashes, cuffs and other toys can allow one partner to exert their dominance—and the submissive or slave gets the opportunity to serve them however they’re directed.
• Character roleplaying and cosplay: French maids, superheroes, professor/student, even non-human characters—this is the perfect opportunity to not only get away from everyday distractions, but to fully become someone else in your sex play. Many couples find it exciting to pretend to be someone else in order to explore their fantasies—whether they’re grappling with embarrassment for their interest in taboo practices or they just want to find out what it’s like to sleep with Superman, there’s a wealth of possibility when you dress up and act out.
• Sensory deprivation: Many people find it arousing to engage in sensory deprivation. Using restraints, blindfolds, gags and even earplugs, you and your partner might find that depriving yourselves of one or more of your senses (and the ability to move) heightens the others.
• Sex with a “stranger”: If you’ve ever fantasized about having sex with a stranger—or even cheating on your partner—you’re not alone. Explore the fantasy without repercussions at a BDSM sex dungeon. Pretend to pick your partner up at a bar and take them “back to your place” for a very kinky surprise.
• Pet play: Many people find the fantasy of being a “pet” to be unbearably hot. We don’t necessarily mean dressing up like an animal (no judgment if that’s your idea of a great time, though!), but it’s a common variation on the submissive dynamic. A collar and leash can add to the fun (and agony) of patiently waiting until it’s time to serve your master.

Visit a BDSM sex dungeon

Feeling inspired by some of these BDSM ideas, or want to act out ones of your own? Book a stay at the Monterey Stay and Play, the area’s premier erotic B&B. We supply the equipment so that you can explore your kinks and fetishes in a clean, quiet, private environment. With our affordable rates, you can truly get away from it all. Reach out to us today to book your stay at our discreet location. We look forward to seeing you soon.

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