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Time Outs: Bondage Works Best!

June 4, 2021 1:24 am Published by Leave your thoughts

Are you thinking about adding punishments to your BDSM play? Not all of them have to be of the whips, canes and clamps variety. Sometimes a bondage time out can be an extremely effective way to adjust your submissive’s behavior. As long as you both discuss punishments, potential length and limits, you can use time outs to create anticipation, punishment or both. Here’s how to get started when you’re looking to use time outs in your BDSM relationship: Remember that time outs are discipline: Discipline can be a fun way to establish dominance—reward the good behavior and punish the bad—but... View Article

What to Know About Temporary Power Exchange

April 22, 2021 5:41 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

Power exchange is one of the driving forces behind many BDSM relationships, whether it’s master and slave, dominance and submission, caregiver and little or a number of other relationship types. These might be complete power exchanges, or temporary. The partners’ roles can stay the same or shift depending on mood and preference. No matter what the dynamic, however, there are a few “rules” for temporary power exchange relationships. Here’s an overview of what you should know if you’re considering this type of play. Consent is key The only “rule” you should follow is ensuring that all parties have completely consented... View Article

What’s the Difference Between a Dominant and a Submissive?

June 25, 2020 11:09 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

When you’re new to the BDSM community, some of the terms may be confusing. BDSM, which stands for “bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism,” is an umbrella term for kinks that tend to involve power games and other taboo forms of expression. Knowing whether you’re dominant or submissive in BDSM is the first step to exploring whether this type of sex play is right for you. Dominant vs. submissive BDSM often involves a power exchange, meaning one partner willingly gives up control to the other. This relationship is built on trust, so it’s important to understand... View Article

Must-Try BDSM Ideas and Fantasies to Try at a Sex Dungeon

May 11, 2020 11:03 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

If you’ve never been to a BDSM sex dungeon, you might not know which BDSM ideas to try first. When you and your partner or partners have an entire dungeon room to yourselves, the possibilities for exploring your sexualities and relationships are only limited by your kinks and consent. Whether you’re a longtime member of the BDSM community or you’re spicing up the relationship, there are some classic fantasies that you can act out in the privacy of a sex dungeon. Here are a few of our favorite dungeon room BDSM ideas: Master/slave play: Naturally, the first thing that comes... View Article

What Does Dominance Mean to Me?

May 2, 2019 3:22 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

Written by: It’s a good question and an obvious question to begin with. To me, a Dominant is a person who has a calm, commanding, and confident personality. Someone who is used to getting their way and demands it in subtle (and not so subtle) ways. Just their presence, the way they stand, the way they speak, and their eye contact can be enough to bend others to their will. A Dominant is intelligent…observing, listening, and constantly learning so that they can improve and stay at the top of their game. Dominants are not cocky assholes who expect others... View Article