Open and honest communication is vital in any relationship, particularly when it comes to sensitive topics such as personal desires and preferences. If you have desires for dominance in your relationship, initiating this conversation with your wife can be both challenging and rewarding. This blog provides guidance on how to approach this subject thoughtfully and respectfully, ensuring that both partners feel heard and valued. Why Open Communication Matters Effective communication is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship. It allows partners to express their needs, desires, and concerns, fostering a deeper understanding and connection. When discussing desires for dominance, it’s crucial... View Article
Roles Safety And Fundamentals Of Kink Kink is a great way of exploring sexual interests and fantasies that may or may not include constraints or resistance, often with a dominant/submissive partner. And while kink is often viewed as an adventurous way of exploring sexual interests and fantasies, the kink community is actually characterized by a strong emphasis on consent and safety. How Many People Practice BDSM? Bondage, discipline, submission, and masochism are sexual behaviors that can often involve pain, sex play and power exchange. One study surveyed Canadians and found that almost half of them had tried BDSM in the... View Article
Whether you’re new to the BDSM scene or you’d like to improve your existing relationship, there are a few ways a submissive can draw out their partner’s dominant side. Making a better dominant is a team effort: it takes communication, consent and plenty of planning from both parties. If your partner is having trouble embracing their inner (or outer) dom, here are some ways you can help draw out their dominant side. Consent and communication Consent is a hallmark of any healthy BDSM relationship. Communication is equally important. Although it can be awkward to tell your partner what exactly you’d... View Article
Whether you’ve already dipped your toes (or other body parts) into the world of BDSM, or you’ve always wanted to try it, there’s plenty to learn. Even the most ardent practitioners are always learning or trying something new. The first thing to decide is whether you’d prefer to be dominant or submissive. Here’s our guide to being a sub—try these tips to find out if being submissive is right for you. Why do people choose submission? There are dozens of reasons someone might choose to be a sub. The idea of giving up control in a “safe” environment is appealing... View Article
Whether you’ve always wanted to be sexually dominant or you’re starting to explore your fantasies, there’s no single way to be a dominant. Every dom has a different style, but there are some major guidelines to adhere to and red flags to avoid. If you want to establish long-lasting BDSM relationships with submissive partners, you’ll need to put in the work first. Put down the pop culture depictions of BDSM and read on. What is a dom? Doms come in a lot of different varieties, but good ones have several qualities in common. First, they’re respectful and patient—not aggressive and... View Article
