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Why You Shouldn’t Feel Guilty About Sharing an Adult Weekend Away from Your Children

February 19, 2021 4:02 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

You love your kids—but sharing every moment with them isn’t healthy for any of you. Between parental responsibilities, enjoying your children and the societal shaming that comes with getting away for a bit, you might not feel comfortable spending an adult weekend away from home. However, that BDSM weekend getaway might just be the best decision you’ve made for your family all year. Here’s why. Get closer to your partner Modeling healthy relationships is important for your children’s development, even if they don’t need to know what their parents are really doing behind closed doors. It’s also important for you... View Article


Seven Must-Have Items for Your Sex Dungeon at Home

February 6, 2021 4:22 am Published by Leave your thoughts

Thinking about turning your bedroom into the ultimate playground for adults? When you’re having fun experimenting with BDSM, you might wonder exactly what a good sex dungeon should include. Maybe you haven’t figured out exactly which kinks are your favorite, or you’re trying to decide what can be stored discreetly. There are no hard and fast rules for what goes into a sex dungeon—it’s all based on personal preference. There’s no need to study 50 Shades of Grey and make your own “red room.” With that said, there are a few popular toys and items that can make your experience... View Article


The Basics of Using Safe Words

January 23, 2021 4:22 am Published by Leave your thoughts

One of the reasons BDSM can be great for relationships is that it fosters a lot of trust. Often, one partner takes on a submissive role, which means they have to trust that their partner will respect their boundaries, even if the partner disagrees or wants to keep going. That’s where safe words come in. Here’s why safe words are so important when you’re exploring BDSM. What is a safe word? A safe word is a mutually-agreed-upon word or phrase that, if spoken, indicates that all activity has to stop immediately. Even if something feels really great, or you’re close... View Article


The Importance of Discussing Hard Limits in BDSM

January 12, 2021 5:07 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

When you’re getting ready to explore BDSM, you and your partner will need to discuss BDSM rules and limits. Limits are frequently referred to as “hard” or “soft,” which indicates where each partner can push and where they cannot. Since trust is key to a safe and enjoyable BDSM experience, you’ll need to determine your hard and soft limits right away. Deciding and discussing your limits BDSM is an umbrella term for a lot of kinky practices, so there’s no getting around it: you’ll have to discuss limits before the clothing comes off. Otherwise, one of you could be picturing... View Article


Why You Should Consider a Bed and Bondage Getaway in the New Year

December 29, 2020 5:07 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

Now that 2020 is over (and the whole world is breathing a sigh of relief), it’s time to look forward to what 2021 has to offer. If you’re like most people, 2020 was a stressful and difficult year. Why not celebrate the new year with a bed and bondage getaway? Whether you’re an experienced kinkster or want to take the time to explore new fantasies, a visit to a bed and bondage hotel is the perfect way to get your new year off to a great start: Spice up your relationship: When you’ve been with your partner for a long... View Article


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