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Bed & Bondage or Bed & Breakfast? What’s The Difference?

May 6, 2022 12:00 am Published by

Bed and breakfast inns are the most popular lodging option for travelers and persons looking to spend a night away from home. Traditionally, this lodging option lets you stay in a private room for the night and get breakfast in the morning. They are a preferred option for many because they are considered to provide a more personal experience than a hotel. Most bed and breakfast rooms are fitted with a private bathroom. However, over the last couple of decades, a new segment in the lodging industry has been picking up traction – fetish bed and breakfast, also known as... View Article

The Essential Role of Consent in BDSM

March 29, 2022 12:00 am Published by

Exploring new ways to get intimate with your partner can be a wonderful experience for both of you. While checking out the different things you can try, you may discover that the two of you have a mutual interest in trying out BDSM. BDSM stands for bondage, dominance, and submission/sadomasochism. As you’ve probably deduced from the acronym, it refers to more than one thing. Numerous types of sexual practices are considered forms of BDSM. However, BDSM is not something you should jump into right away. Before you try out aspects of BDSM together with your partner, it’s important to review... View Article

How To Broach the Topic of BDSM With Your Partner

March 29, 2022 12:00 am Published by

After being with your partner for a while, you may get the urge to spice things up in the bedroom. BDSM may be something you’ve long been interested in. Now, you want to take the next step and give it a try. There is absolutely nothing wrong with developing that fascination. Even so, it’s not something you can just bring out of the blue either. So, how do you broach the topic of trying BDSM with your partner? That’s the topic we’ll be discussing in this article. Stick around if you’re interested in venturing into the realm of BDSM together... View Article

Ways to Help Get Into a Submissive Headspace

March 11, 2022 8:18 pm Published by

If you’ve been wondering how to get into a submissive headspace and become a better sub, there are a few different methods you can try. While BDSM is fun and rewarding for many people, it can be difficult to give up control to your dominant partner. The best way to address this is with plenty of communication—and treating your safe word as sacred. Here are some tips for getting into a submissive headspace. What is a submissive headspace? No matter your age, gender, sexual preference or personality, chances are that you’ve had to take a leading role in your own... View Article

Ways a Submissive Can Draw Out the Dominant in Their Partner

February 25, 2022 8:18 pm Published by

Whether you’re new to the BDSM scene or you’d like to improve your existing relationship, there are a few ways a submissive can draw out their partner’s dominant side. Making a better dominant is a team effort: it takes communication, consent and plenty of planning from both parties. If your partner is having trouble embracing their inner (or outer) dom, here are some ways you can help draw out their dominant side. Consent and communication Consent is a hallmark of any healthy BDSM relationship. Communication is equally important. Although it can be awkward to tell your partner what exactly you’d... View Article

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