Categories for BDSM

Understanding FLR (Female-Led Relationships)

April 2, 2021 5:23 am Published by

Have you been curious about female-led relationships (FLR) and how to incorporate them into your existing relationship? You’re not alone—and you’re not limited to BDSM practices, either. Although FLR originated within the BDSM and kink community, the term has now expanded to include relationships where a woman has more power than the man. This could be in the bedroom, but could also refer to their status as breadwinner, decision-making authority or other power dynamics. Of course, many couples find that an FLR is also an exciting part of their sex life. If you’re a woman who loves to be in... View Article

Obedience Is a Gift

March 19, 2021 5:23 am Published by

BDSM is a sexual spectrum. There’s no single definition of what it means to partake in the lifestyle, including acts or behaviors anyone “must” engage in. However, obedience is often a prevalent facet of BDSM scenes. Dominant and submissive partners tend to enjoy the power exchange dynamic that BDSM offers. Read on for an overview of obedience, and why you might use that as part of your BDSM exploration. Dominant and submissive partners You might have read about people referring to themselves as “doms” or “subs,” which indicates whether they prefer to be the dominant partner or the submissive one.... View Article

Role Play Options

March 5, 2021 4:02 pm Published by

Whether you’re looking to spice up your existing BDSM relationship, or you’re planning a sexy weekend getaway to try something new, role playing can be a fun way to bond with your partner. The only problem is deciding which one to try first. Here are some of our favorite BDSM role play ideas. Don’t forget to discuss them with your partner first, and remember to establish boundaries and safe words before you step into the scene: Kinky maid: What happens when you leave a smudge on the mirror? Uh-oh, the homeowner isn’t going to be very happy with you—but maybe... View Article

Why You Shouldn’t Feel Guilty About Sharing an Adult Weekend Away from Your Children

February 19, 2021 4:02 pm Published by

You love your kids—but sharing every moment with them isn’t healthy for any of you. Between parental responsibilities, enjoying your children and the societal shaming that comes with getting away for a bit, you might not feel comfortable spending an adult weekend away from home. However, that BDSM weekend getaway might just be the best decision you’ve made for your family all year. Here’s why. Get closer to your partner Modeling healthy relationships is important for your children’s development, even if they don’t need to know what their parents are really doing behind closed doors. It’s also important for you... View Article

Seven Must-Have Items for Your Sex Dungeon at Home

February 6, 2021 4:22 am Published by

Thinking about turning your bedroom into the ultimate playground for adults? When you’re having fun experimenting with BDSM, you might wonder exactly what a good sex dungeon should include. Maybe you haven’t figured out exactly which kinks are your favorite, or you’re trying to decide what can be stored discreetly. There are no hard and fast rules for what goes into a sex dungeon—it’s all based on personal preference. There’s no need to study 50 Shades of Grey and make your own “red room.” With that said, there are a few popular toys and items that can make your experience... View Article

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