Any marriage takes work, but when we say that, we usually mean things like putting away our dirty socks so that our spouse doesn’t have to, figuring out a way to tolerate your mother-in-law’s questions about having babies and making an effort to say you love each other every day. Although intimacy is a crucial part of any marriage, it’s usually not until there’s a problem in the bedroom that we turn our attention to working on our sex lives. At Monterey Stay and Play, however, we think that your sex life deserves just as much attention as any other... View Article
Modern travelers have many lodging options. From luxurious hotels, hostels, AirBnBs, and standard B&Bs, there’s no shortage of places to stay. For consenting adults, traditional B&Bs have added another option, a bed & bondage hotel. Learn more about B&Bs and why two adults may want to choose a bed & BDSM for a romantic getaway. What is at a Standard B&B? A traditional bed and breakfast hotel offers lodging, usually in a private home, along with breakfast served in the morning before checkout. Although B&Bs were trendy in the 1980s and 1990s, the custom to open one’s home to travelers... View Article
Bed and breakfast inns are popular lodging choices in which you stay overnight in a private home and then get served a special breakfast the next morning. Generally, a B&B is more personal than a hotel, while still giving guests a private room usually with a private bathroom. Meet the next generation of vacation lodging, a fetish bed and breakfast. If you’re ready to take a deeper look at your erotic fantasies, a fetish B&B might just be the place you’re seeking. What is a Fetish Bed and Breakfast? A fetish bed and breakfast, also called a bondage and breakfast,... View Article
The movie ’50 Shades of Grey’ has been hailed as an erotic masterpiece, and it has undoubtedly provided inspiration to a great many men and women who previously led fairly vanilla sex lives. Some of the ideas explored during the movie have since been explored by countless couples who have sought to add life and excitement to their sexual encounters. Below you’ll find some of the methods which were touched on in the movie, and which you might want to adapt for your own personal usage in the bedroom. Keep in mind that not all of these even need to... View Article
Have you been wishing your sex life was a little more exciting, but aren’t sure how to spice it up? Maybe you’ve always associated kinks and fetishes with pain or extreme practices—but not all kinky or fetish play has to involve vinyl bodysuits, whips and chains. Chances are, you might already have indulged in some of the most popular kinks and fetishes, and this list can help you identify a few more to try. Before you start making a wish list of your own, bear in mind that “fetish” indicates a behavior, practice or object that someone cannot achieve arousal... View Article
